We have a cut leaved, weeping red acer that was in a pot for a couple of decades and it stayed a manageable size. We planted it in the ground and it has grown more vigorously but still not a monster. We have another couple of the same type but with green leaves (emerald lace i think) and although they have always been in the ground, they are by far faster growers and little monsters really.
We have the upright, normal leaved cultivars as well and they are quicker growers especially katsura which has very fast growth. These were shaded by a tree but our neighbour cut it down so they do get leaf scorch sometimes which makes them a little tatty if you really look. We have had problems with our two potted ones (the ones in the ground are fine and we don't water them) where we didn't realise how windy it had been (even in a shady, sheltered spot) and the leaves all died and fell off prematurely in the autumn but they sprung back in spring, so keeping on top of watering in a must and why you need to check the pot has space for the roots to grow yearly.