Hi all,
Well this subject has been a good one . The OP original question sort of got lost . [Hi what’s the best way to know you have stable CO2? ] The answer is do you have good plant growth? You can measure, test etc.. but it’s simpler than that.. do you have minimal algea? Are your plants growing? I’m not a scientist ,biologist or plant expert by any means. I’m just a guy who enjoys growing plants in a tank full of water no more no less. I can’t answer all the science questions but, a little common sense will go a long way.
I think you have to differentiate between low tech and hi tech.
In a low tech, the plant mass is going to effectively deplete the CO2 during the photoperiod, you can get a measure of this by the variation in pH (as the CO2:O2 ratio changes). A larger plant mass will deplete that CO2 more effectively, it's back to <"
Canford Park again">. During photosynthesis one molecule of O2 is produced for every molecule of CO2 incorporated. Because plants are carbon based, and they grow, we can see that they are net CO2 consumers and net oxygen producers.
There are ways of "flattening the curve" of CO2 depletion, the one I would recommend would be increasing <"
the gas exchange surface area">. There is a much fuller discussion of this in <"
maxing CO2 in Low Techs">, where this graph comes from.

Partially why I like a floating plant in the tanks is that they aren't ever CO2 limited, they have <"
Diana Walstad's "aerial advantage">. This is also why I think that the <"
no water changes, low tech because they cause CO2 fluctuation"> isn't an argument that holds any water.
High Tech.
I'm not a CO2 user, but I think the idea behind the "stable 30ppm of CO2" during the photoperiod was so that plants aren't carbon limited, and can effectively make use of the PAR and nutrients available to them. You can still end up in a situation where CO2 is depleted (because PAR drives photosynthesis), but you can't safely go much beyond 30 ppm CO2 without asphyxiating your fish. If you don't have any livestock you could definitely add more CO2 and the plants could then utilise more PAR and nutrients.
cheers Darrel