After my last post in this topic i didn't really open Ukaps for a few weeks.
I was a bit busy but the main reason was the discussion above.
You see, I descided a few years ago not to watch the news anymore because i really hate animal abuse, the way we are f*ing up nature, the way we treat animals and our environment,... so in order to avoid situations where animal abuse is considered "normal",to ignore hunters, poachers and other misfits... and to escape the b-blahblahblahblah of politicians i just stopped watching news, facebook and such completely. That was a relief!
The other option was to be in a constant state of "rage and disappointment" so in order to save myself i just looked away, at least i tried to.
But this evasion is only efficient as long as the ignored doesn't come and slap me in the face to much (as you can imagine).
When i visit a site like Ukaps i assume to be around people that qualify as animal/nature lovers. So it hurts even more when i stumble upon animal cruelty on a site like this.
You know, I can give my point of view, like i did in the above, but it didn't make me a happy camper. It made my head turn and twist in unbelieve for some days, giving me an allround unhappy feeling...
The discussion above, albeit respectfull, argumented (and entertaining), still left me feeling a bit confused, made me think what was the best way for me to hande this without getting depressed.
So i guessed it would be better for my mental health and my allround state of mind to just ignore threads like this from now on...
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i honestly wasn't planning on reacting here anymore when i reopened the site yesterday morning...
But.... The first thing i saw in the "recent posts" (must be a coincidence) is your latest reaction. (the one where you add a bigger snakehead!)
Cou... cou... could ... couldn't maintain ignore-mode...

T t t t t t tried but failed..
I really tried, i typed this yesterday but then decided not to post it. I came back today and again first thing i see was your latest post "they are not cramped"
LOL
What happened next was a classic case of refall after the rehab...
One puff and i was on the wagon again!
It's just stronger then myself, resistance is futile....
So here i go, one last time. (i hope)
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Maybe i'll kick you some sort of a conscience during my last crusade!
Who knows... It's worth the try anyhow...
think I’m 20 years I may be a vegan that goes around liberating fish from peoples tanks haha!
Be sure to give me a shout when (or "if") you arrive at that stage in life.
We'll team up and form a much needed international animal rescue-squad. But clearly you are not in that place yet.... On the contrary
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For now: You are lucky you are in Malaysia and i'm not because otherwise your tank would be fishless by tonight.
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If I could find a local animal lover I would gladly pay him good money (and i don't own a lot of money but that wouldn't stop me) just to rescue those fish
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Not only does it look terribly overstocked (with six of those monsters in it) but introducing a new, even bigger one....?
That is really a special kind of special to me.

Baffling (well almost, it didn't stop me...

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But again: why add another one?
To be sure you have a male? Even specialists told you to wait it out...
But no no no, you'll have it your way so you add another, bigger, one rightaway (maybe to make them fight a bit sooner?)
Nice plan! Seriously: what are the odds you having 6 females? Did you do the math? hahaha, i suspect not
But the tragedy is that exactely this kind of behaviour makes me resent the human nature! ( as in: "What? Why? How? Wtf? ....")
Watching your video brings tears to my eyes! Not even kidding here!
Sadness, like a dark cloud, overwhelms my thoughts and covers all i see in a red hue: It is like there is a transparent bloody film over my eyelids that makes the world look red, violent and hostile!
My eyes turn all black, my theeth grow longer and sharper and my neck starts to twist: A beast is born! And it's watching your every move!

And i was full of hope when i read this before:
And as I mature with the hobby and life in general I find myself becoming more empathetic towards animals I keep
Honestly: you still have got a lot of maturing to do appearently, i am searching your empathetic side
🙁 in vain...
And for it to grow it first needs to exist.
I can only hope waking up some of your empathy by typing these words.
I really appreciate your discussion above and you seem to be a reasonable person.
But sadly i have to add that i hate your current way of keeping animals. Someone should free those fish and confisquate your tank until you are a mature person...(whenever that will be...)
I know what u mean but the big fish do have an upside, they’re actually interesting.
I really wonder what exactely is "interesting" about an overcrowded tank with big fish uprooting the delicate planting and waiting for the ideal time to start killing eachother.
Meh,

, i don't seem to get it.
I guess when 99% of what we normally see are nano varieties then fish of this size can look cramped in a tank. But they’re not.
What do you mean, they are not cramped?
Sorry mate, but this clearly is animal abuse, no matter what you tell yourself! Just look with an open mind at your tank.
If you can't see that you must have an eyecondition or something like that....