Yea i know - but at least she doesn't attack him as they do in some species of apisto.Most Apistogramma are polygamous, so for most species, males generally don't help besides guarding territory.
Cichlids are full of character though and do some weird stuff now and then, like males chasing off the female and taking care of fry themselves, females stealing other female's fry, even species guarding other species' fry. The wonderful world of cichlids.