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Are a lot of fishkeepers wired differently?

I think it's ok to share our views as just that, biased views from anecdotal experiences as an interesting point of discussion? I don't think (or at least hope) that anyone is trying to pull anything concrete from this thread šŸ™‚
Certainly, but itā€™s also alright to challenge views based on anecdote that only serve to perpetuate stereotypes. šŸ™‚
 
Im not stereotyping anyone

Interesting someone said we used to live different in the past. My family is all like this and even though maybe some were bad at school and others not those family members bad at school were good butchers or blacksmiths or farmers. But not stupid at all. The opposite if anything. They were really good at these things.

I think there is some things like slightly bad nutrition holding people like this back. I think neurodivergent people are slightly less healthy on average. But if you fix that? Not much can stop you I think. I also think that sometimes someone that would just be a bit eccentric can be disabled by bad health. Or neurodivergent people are more sensitive to bad health. People that aren't like this seem to eat whatever and do whatever and get away with it...
 
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One thing comes to mind is that someone on another thread said we consider the wrong people disabled in our society. Some of the worst politicians and so on will never get help, or even think there is anything wrong with them... Yet they do more harm. But instead we focus on neurodiversity which really is just a difference? With a tendency for these people to be genuinely good people. I mean its not even a problem really anyways? I think if people didn't treat neurodiverse people so badly not many would have problems focusing or have all these health problems.. Among other things

I feel like the tide is changing in our society in terms of who will be in power... Could be false but I don't think so
 
You hear a lot of talk about the mental health benefits of gardening, yet itā€™s seen as something that benefits everyone, neurodivergent or not (that is assuming you actually enjoy it). Mental health is a work in progress, in the same way that an active lifestyle supports your physical health.

The kind of auarium-keeping we appreciate on this forum is undeservedly niche, at least in the UK. Where would you come into contact with ā€œgoodā€ planted aquariums if you donā€™t already know about the hobby? Itā€™s arguably more accessible than gardening, financially. Yes itā€™s nerdy, but so is GQT. Itā€™s a bit of a reclusive hobby for sure but I donā€™t think this is by choice, probably exacerbated by things moving online and away from physical clubs etc
 
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